How to Help Our Messy Kids

Messy Kids

You know that kid who has a messy room, backpack, locker? Who loses important papers, books, sports equipment? Who could have straight A’s…if only they remembered to turn in assignments, to bring home their homework, to use their planner?!?!?!? I have two of those kids.  Having a messy […]

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Smart vs The Report Card

School Report Card

My daughter came home with her school report card and announced that she is “smart”. Now, you might think I would count that as a victory, but I didn’t because I never let her brothers get away with the opposite – which is that a bad report card […]

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Help Your Kids to Read More Books

Kids read books

” I do not read enough books, and my kids do not read enough books. I’ve had that nagging thought forever – like basically since my kids were born, but now it’s more than a nag it’s a conviction. In December, I attended a reading workshop that was […]

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5 Reasons to Use a Timer for Homework

homework

The timer in my kitchen has seen a lot of living.   It has timed to perfection a lot of great meals, of course, but its real use is to motivate my kids and me to get moving and stay focused. We play beat the clock a lot – 5 minutes […]

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Keep Calm and Look at the Test

patience

Patience is a virtue, and sadly for my children, not one of the virtues I’ve been blessed with. They have gotten really good over the years at figuring out what my triggers are and then avoiding them at all cost. The one thing they cannot avoid, though, is […]

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It Doesn’t Have to Stay on the Screen

Digital School

This year my 7th grade daughter has e-textbooks, Google classrooms, and digital notebooks. This is the year that she learns to manage her schoolwork in the digital world. She’s thrilled, but I see a year fraught with learning peril. You can’t blame me; it seems that every time […]

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The No Nag Plan to Finish Summer Reading

Summer Reading

There are three ways to get your kids to finish their assigned summer reading – the right way, the wrong way, and the why-did-I-ever-have-kids way. The right way is that your kids just do it. The wrong way is that you do it for them. Then there is […]

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The Right Way to Stay Home Sick From School

Stay Home Sick From School

Working in a middle school is roughly the equivalent of smearing the contents of a virulent petri dish all over your desk every day. Teachers can take it. We have immune systems that should be studied by the Department of Defense when they are figuring out how we […]

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How to Beat the Sunday Night Blues

Sunday Night

When my oldest son was in 6th grade, he came to me one Sunday afternoon and said he felt nervous, but he didn’t know why. I knew why, but I was shocked that he was feeling the Sunday night blues at his age. Eleven years old seemed too […]

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What To Do If Your Child Hates School

What to do if your child hates school.

It is hard when we have a child who hates school, but there are some things we can do as parents to make things more hopeful for both the child and us. Listen Do listen to what they have to say, and don’t argue with them about why they […]

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